Marco Abis - personal
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@me,
since the folks @gotosocial use matrix as their chat I tested a few Matrix homeservers and settled on @matrix's Dendrite golang implementation:
matrix-org.github.io/dendrite/
Running it on the same small VPS I'm using for gotosocial as a test, will eventually rearrange things.
Liked conduit.rs (written in Rust) but for now settled on Dendrite